New Year Energy Is Lying to You!

Real talk on broken systems, bad advice, and what comes next.

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Jessica D. Winder
January 16, 2026

The New Year Lie We Keep Falling For

Every January, we pretend work gets a personality reset. The calendar flips, LinkedIn fills up with resolutions, and suddenly everyone is an expert on transformation. New goals. New tools. New strategies.

And HR? HR is still cleaning up last year’s mess.

Same broken systems. Same understaffed teams. Same expectations to somehow “optimize” chaos without budget, authority, or protection. This episode starts by naming the lie we are all quietly participating in. Time passing does not equal progress. A new year does not fix old dysfunction. And pretending it does only burns people out faster.

The Internet Sells Hope. HR Deals in Reality

The loudest voices online rarely have to implement anything. They sell frameworks. HR lives inside consequences.

This part of the conversation gets very real about the gap between leadership vision and operational reality. HR is expected to absorb every new initiative, translate vague direction into action, and manage the emotional fallout when things do not work. All while being told to be positive, flexible, and grateful.

The result is exhaustion that cannot be fixed with resilience training. HR is tired because the system demands endurance instead of change.

Ins and Outs Are Not Cute. They Are Boundaries

This episode’s Ins and Outs are not trend predictions. They are survival decisions.

What is in? Clarity. Direct feedback. Leaders who say what they mean. HR professionals who stop softening the truth to protect fragile egos.

What is out? Performative wellness. Endless strategy decks with no follow through. Being told to fix culture while leadership avoids accountability.

HR does not need another buzzword. HR needs permission to stop pretending that unacceptable is acceptable.

You Cannot Motivation Poster a Broken System

There is no amount of coaching that will fix a structurally broken environment.

This part digs into one of the most damaging myths in modern work. If people are disengaged, we assume they lack motivation. If they are burned out, we prescribe self care. If they resist change, we call them difficult.

But the truth is simpler and harder. People react exactly as systems train them to react. When the system is misaligned, no amount of mindset work will save it. HR knows this. We just have not always been allowed to say it out loud.

What HR Really Says When the Door Is Closed

Every HR professional recognizes this part immediately. The group chats. The voice notes. The shared disbelief.

This is not negativity. This is pattern recognition. When thousands of HR leaders across industries describe the same problems independently, it is not complaining. It is evidence.

The episode brings those private conversations into the open because whispering has not fixed anything. If the truth only exists behind closed doors, nothing changes. Visibility is uncomfortable. It is also necessary.

Honesty Has a Cost and HR Pays It First

Being honest in HR is risky. This part does not romanticize that reality. Calling out dysfunction can stall careers. It can label you as difficult. It can isolate you in rooms where agreement is safer than truth.

But avoiding honesty costs more in the long run. HR cannot be both the translator of leadership discomfort and the carrier of truth. At some point, the role has to decide what it actually stands for.

Credibility or comfort? Clarity or compliance?

TL;DR: What This Season Is Actually About

This season is not about tearing everything down. It is about naming what already exists.

When HR stops pretending, employees stop internalizing failures that were never personal. When leaders hear the unfiltered truth, they gain the opportunity to fix what matters.

This episode sets the tone for a season rooted in reality. Not optimism for show. Not noise for clicks. Just honest conversations about what works, what does not, and what we are no longer willing to carry.

If work feels harder than it should, it is not just you. And this season is here to explain why.

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